Hello Carol
If you can give us his birthdate maybe we can find him.
I found your Henrietta at a CD for southern part of Stockholm city with her family
The family came from Brännkyrka parish, Stockholm 19.10.1880
Father; Erik Magnus Häger born 19.8.1844 Falu Gustafs, Kopparberg
Mother: Fredrika Romlin born 20.9.1846 Falu Gustafs, Kopparberg
Children:
Henrietta Wilhelmina Häger born 20.2.1868, Säter, Kopparberg. She moved to Karlstad, Värmland 23.19.1886
Alma Christina Häger born 10.11.1869, Säter, Kopparberg. Married to J.A Ekner born 27.12.1865
Emanuel Häger born 27.4.1871, Säter, Kopparberg
Hulda Eugenia Häger born 16.12.1872, Säter, Kopparberg
Anna Regina Häger born 28.11.187, Säter, Kopparberg. Moved to Amerika 3.2.1874
Ida Fredrika Häger born 1.10.1876, Stora Tuna, Kopparberg
Viktor Häger born 11.8.1878, Stora Tuna, Kopparberg. Died 8.6.1881, Högalid, Stockholm
Thekla Josefina Häger born 18.6.1880, Brännkyrka, Stockholm. Died 19.2.1881 Högalid, Stockholm
It looked like the family have had some problems. Several of the children has been taken care of.
Regarding Henrietta I also found her at the census for Värmland.
http://www.foark.umu.se/folk/s/person.asp?lannr=17&forsnr=90&pnr=562 Lena